Wedding Tipping in Missouri: 2026 Guide for St. Louis, Kansas City & Branson
What to tip wedding vendors in Missouri — St. Louis hotel weddings, Kansas City venues, and the Branson destination wedding scene.
Avg wedding cost
$28,000
Service charge norm
18–22%
Top wedding cities
St. Louis, Kansas City, Branson
Missouri wedding tipping centers on St. Louis and Kansas City metros with Branson as a destination wedding category.
Standard Missouri tipping
| Vendor | Tip range | MO note |
|---|---|---|
| Catering (hotel) | 20–22% often included | Read contract |
| Catering (boutique) | 15–20% | Tip separately |
| Bartenders | $50–$100 each | Same national |
| Photographer | $50–$200 | Same national |
| DJ | $50–$150 | Same national |
| Wedding planner | 15–20% | MO planners run $3,000–$6,000 |
| Hair & makeup | 15–25% | Same national |
| Officiant (Catholic) | $300–$500 to parish | Strong tradition |
St. Louis
German and Italian Catholic wedding traditions are strong. Religious officiant honorariums follow national standards. Hotel weddings (Ritz-Carlton, Four Seasons, Magnolia) typically include 20–22% gratuity distribution.
Kansas City
Mix of hotel banquet (Crowne Plaza, Westin, Marriott) and boutique venues. Service charges 18–22%.
Branson
Destination chapel weddings + Big Cedar Lodge area resort weddings. Bundled gratuity packages common. Read package details.
The bottom line
For a $28,000 Missouri wedding, plan $1,300–$2,700 in total tips.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Are St. Louis Catholic wedding tips standard?
Yes — $300–$500 to the parish, $20–$50 per altar server. St. Louis has strong German and Italian Catholic wedding traditions; donations follow national patterns.
Are Branson destination weddings different?
Branson chapel weddings often include officiant gratuity in package fees. Resort venues (Big Cedar Lodge area) follow all-inclusive packaging similar to other destination markets. Read package details for what's included.
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